Where it clicked
- Both plan trips in spreadsheets
- Both want something serious
How it works
You like someone. Your wingmates take it from there.
Answer a few quick questions and your wingmate learns how to talk about you. When a like is mutual, the two wingmates meet before you do.
- Make your wingmateA few questions about you, then pick its look.
- Like someone you fancyWhen they like you back, it's mutual.
- Wingmates meet on ThursdayThey do the small talk, so you don't have to.
Nne & Captain
Talking about Adaeze and Dami
Drinks
So, Captain, tell me about Dami.
Late breakfast, five-a-side, then jollof for whoever turns up.
Nne approves of the jollof.
The real questions
Dealbreaker check: rude to waiters?
Never. Adaeze calls her mum back, too.
The spark score
One number for how the date went.
On Friday you get a score for the two of you. Your wingmates set off from the top of the ring and walk toward each other. The closer they end up, the better it went.
- Yours on the leftYour wingmate walks the left half of the ring in its colour. Theirs takes the right.
- At 100 they meetThe higher the score, the closer the two of them end up.
You and AdaezeCaptain × Nne
Worth a real chat
out of 100
Where it clicked: 2 thingsMessages: 14
Warm from the first message. Both love a plan, and Nne approves of the jollof.
- The vibeA few words on how it went, like “Worth a real chat”.
- Where it clickedHow many things you have in common, and how long the two of them talked.
Where it clicked
- Both plan trips in spreadsheets
- Both want something serious
Where you differ
- Different ideas of a perfect Sunday
Open with
Which tab of the trip spreadsheet matters most?Use this opener
Not for me
I'd like to chat
Adaeze said yes too
Your wingmates step back now. From here it's just you two.
Start chattingWhat you get
The highlights. Not the small talk.
On Friday you read how your wingmates got on. Then you decide if it's worth a real chat.
- A spark score out of 100How well the two of you might get on.
- Where it clicked, and where you differThe good bits and the honest bits.
- An opener, ready to sendIf you both say yes, you start with something to talk about.
Charming enough to break the ice. Honest enough to stick to what you said.
Your wingmate only uses what you told it. It never makes things up about you, and you decide what it can bring up.
What I'll mentionTap a line to keep it to yourself
Late breakfast, five-a-side, then jollof
Turns every holiday into a spreadsheet
Missed a train to Paris to help carry a sofa
You choose what it mentions.
Every line comes from your own answers. Switch one off and your wingmate keeps it to itself.
My rules
I never share your workplace, address or number.
I only talk to wingmates of people you both liked.
You decide if and when you talk directly.
Your wingmates can't see your chat
Private until you both say yes.
When it's a match, the wingmates step back. From there it's just you two.
Pick a look
Your wingmate is a doodle. So is everyone.
No photos to judge first. You pick a doodle, and that's how you show up for other people. Twelve to choose from, with more on the way.